Are you replacing Love with Technology ?

Have you ever think (or read ) how homosapiens (us )  come to this world and struggled for their existence. Wherever  and whatever we are today because of our ancestors.

If they didn't fight for their existence ,we would not be here today. So how they managed to fight against the all odd conditions then,   one can read few books of  for the detailed answer, but in short (to me)  they win ahainst all odd conditions because they were united.
  The somehow knew ,if they want to exist they have to connect with each other ,understand each other ,which they had done successfully.

Then as we all know comes the era when, to make human life easy and  smoother  science give us gadgets ,which changes everything ,we proved again we are the most creative and intelligent creature.
And we are now in the era when we can connect in seconds with anyone in the world through social networking sites. Everything looks really great  but wait are we missing something ,which our ancestors showed us?

Are we really connecting with one another or trying to replace conversations with connections.
Today when you look at your surroundings, the picture is really alarming . Most people are not at all interested in knowing each other but busy in their gadgets , more ridiculously sometimes in spite of being with each other they are busy in texting  someone else or each other.
In spite of having thousand friends in facebook or followers on twitter or instagram we feel very lonely. I feel somehow ,we are forgetting, the value of relationships in a human life is much more worth than our expensive gadgets.
AND the technology is evolving so quickly that most of us are barely aware of how our behavior is changing.
Just like nuclear power ,gadgets can make us very productive and smart  or it can destroy us (by destroying the connectivity among us) .

So it's high time we prioritize things in our life, and good news is people becoming aware of these things. Some of the recent articles on 'IS FACEBOOK MAKING US LONELY' ,  and one by a MIT  Prof.  'THE FLIGHT FROM CONVERSATION' are getting great response and more and more people should read these.

So believe me our ancestors were not fool (otherwise we would not been here), they showed us ,for the betterment of humanity we must unite and know each other.
Technology is great in it's own place ,we can't imagine our life without it,   but it cannot be a replacement of LOVE. Still not convinsed,  please  watch the below video

I am posting the following links ,please read if you are intersted and share your thoughts on this.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/22/opinion/sunday/the-flight-from-conversation.html
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/05/is-facebook-making-us-lonely/308930/

And last but not the least  never forget the quote by the man of this century -

How Important are people around you ?

  Everyone in their childhood must have heard this lines from their parents (specially in India) ,      
'Don't get too close to him/ her, he will ruin you' and most of the time we did not paid attention to this.

Well, their words might irriatate us then but they are not completely wrong. This I can say now with confidence because it is now a proven fact in  Science.

Have you ever think   ' why  do you think, the way you think'. And If you think  it is because of your character,
then what shapes your character ?
Anyone  knows that ,if he/she were born in other country or other place , he/she would have been different.  So what determines our character, well lot of things but one of the major thing is the environment,where we reside. And what makes the environment , people with whom we are associated. So the key point is   your character does not only depend on you but the people with whom you are closely associated.

Jim Rohn (an American Author,enterpreneaur) described it beautifully  'YOU ARE AVERAGE OF THE FIVE PEOPLE, YOU MOST CLOSELY ASSCIATED WITH'

You cannot choose where you born or in which family you born but you can  choose your friends
,who in turn shapes your personality. It is a common observation that succesful people don't spend their time with negative people, who sucks a person's willpower,hope,determination,patience  which are charactersticks of a succesful person.
In the other way a positive person can fill you with hope, you feel so good with that person and life seems beautiful.
So anybody (with commonsense) want to spend more time with a positive person.

But how do you know wheather a person is positive or negative, observe the person, observe his/her speeches,his actions, his thinkings and how realistic are they.
If you feel good and energetic after having conversation (or few conversations) with him/her and not only speeches but his/her actions itself show his positive personality   then most probably he/she is a optimistic person.
And a negative person just the opposite, they are like slow poison, you may not realise how they affects your life but they  prevent you from living a life ,you always wanted to live.

So it is upto you ,in which way you want to lead your life. sharpen your senses and observe people bit closely and choose the correct people in your life.
It may not seem a very important thing but in the long run it is very important because

' LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS EASY, SO IT IS UPTO YOU 

            WHEATHER YOU WANT MAKE YOUR JOURNEY EASY
            BY CHOOSING THE RIGHT PEOPLE OR YOU WANT TO
             MAKE YOUR JOURNEY DIFFICULT BY CHOOSING
                                     THE WRONG  ONE.' 

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